Both men and women go through a process of love grief after a breakup, however we both differ in the way we do it. Have you ever wondered how men act after ending a relationship, and especially what they think of women who get over them? Learn it here.
How do men get over a breakup?
Believe it or not, men also suffer when they end a relationship. Especially if this was significant, but since there is a stereotype that men overcome faster than women, it is difficult to imagine what grief will be like for them. Would the comfort to ease the pain of a breakup be different? Or it turns out that we both suffer in the same way.
- They see a lot of adult content: All of us have seen this type of content at some time in our lives. However, it has been shown that men, after ending a relationship, significantly increase their consumption of adult content.
- They harass their exes through networks: Most men develop a need to know what their ex is doing at all times, how and with whom they do it. It is a need to know that they are not yet completely separated.
- They think over and over about how it all ended: Yes, they too relive the last moments over and over again. They try to analyze your latest conversations, messages, calls, or fights.
- They boast about their social life: A characteristic feature of men is that they act as if nothing had happened. His social networks are filled with photos with many friends, to show that he is very well despite the breakup, even if it is not true.
- They listen to a lot of sad music: Something else about women is that they love to feel the pain of the breakup. It is an important part of anyone’s grief.
- They look for a replacement: A very childish attitude, but it is the most common way for men to fill that void until they overcome it. This type of rebound relationship does not usually last long.
- They flirt and look for girls everywhere: The wounded ego they have left after a breakup they try to fill it up by flirting and having fleeting relationships with other girls, never having to get anywhere.
- Get in better shape: Another point where they resemble women, they love to improve their physical form to feel better about themselves and also show their ex-girlfriend “what they missed.”
Do men suffer more than women after a breakup?
We have seen hundreds of movies, series, stories and books that claim that women suffer the most and take time to recover after a breakup. However, in the real world, psychologists affirmed that after a breakup it is men who have the worst moments. And they have proposed several reasons that you would be interested to know:
- They are less communicative than women: Something that helps greatly is venting through dialogue with friends or family. To the extent that women love to talk and talk for hours with their best friends to cry and drain the pain, men prefer to shut up and suffer alone in their rooms.
- They do not accept that they leave them for themselves: This means that a man accepts faster that women leave them for someone else, that they leave them because they simply do not want them.
- Men are more comfortable having a partner than women: A man will always need a woman to be with, and studies show that their health improves whenever they are mated.
Who gets over a breakup faster, men or women?
Therefore, after a love breakup, most men will be left with the hope that their girl will return to their arms soon. And if they notice that this is over, they plunge into a sea of despair. Many act badly, and others much more maturely.
For a woman to quickly overcome him and no longer seek them out, is a terrible blow to his ego. So it will take a long time for them to recover, and to be the same as before.
